In a perfect world...
I would wake up every morning, rested, and ready to take on the world. I would have the time and the energy to make my kids a warm nutritious breakfast. We would sit down as a family, and talk about the day ahead. My kids would get dressed in the clothes that I had laid out for them. They wouldn't complain or try and wiggle away from me when it was time to get dressed.
I could get ready without any interuptions, put my make up on, do my hair, and brush my teeth..all in one visit to the bathroom, and before noon!
My girls would get along all day..I wouldn't have to tell either of them to share, or be nice. Nap time would be a breeze. And I might even get to take one too!
A trip to the grocery store would be easy. I would always get a close parking spot, a warm grocery cart (so that Lily wouldn't complain), and I would always be able to find what I needed and get out of the store, without any begging and for under 100 dollars. :)
My husband would be able to be home by 5..5:30 at the latest. We could have dinner together and get the kids in bed by bedtime. Then cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie.
Ha,ha,ha!
In reality, I wake up most mornings feeling like I have barely slept! (Teething is not fun!) Lily is not a big breakfast fan, I'm lucky to get her to eat a piece of toast while I down a couple cups of java. Billy is usually gone by the time that the girls and I get up. If we are lucky we might get to see him for 15 minutes in the morning.
Lily complains about her clothes, unless I give in and let her wear a dress. We are working on this one! Isabella does not like sitting still for a diaper change, let alone to get dressed for the day.
I usually have to get ready in 5 minute shifts. I try and keep the kiddos busy for a few minutes so that I can sneak away to brush my teeth!
My day is full of "knock it off" "Share please!" "Isabella can play in the playroom, it is her playroom too" "Because I said." "If I get to 3..." You get the idea.
When I go grocery shopping, I usually get a parking spot that is a mile away. The cart is usually wet from the rain, or freezing cold. Lily complains when her sister gets to sit in the front of the cart. Lily always thinks she has to have a toy or treat. And I swear I cannot get out of Walmart without spending 100 dollars. It's the magic number I guess.
Billy usually gets home by 7ish..sometimes a little earlier, sometimes later. He is doing what he has to do to support our family, and I appreciate it more than he knows.
The girls are in bed between 8-10 most nights. Not exactly perfect, but we are trying to get them to bed by 8:30 every night. It's a work in progress.
Sometimes we have 2 little ones in bed with us when we finally make it to sleep.
It may not be perfect, but it is wonderful. I love my kids. I love my husband. And I love my life...well most days. :)